Reston Couples Counseling


Stop Having the Same
Argument Over and Over

Break the Cycle Using The Judeo-Christian Model of Peacemaking

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Book: The Judeo-Christian Model of Peacemaking

Introduction

Greetings. My name is Dr. Ken Newberger.  I hold a Ph.D. in Conflict Analysis & Resolution from Nova Southeastern University and a Master of Theology from Dallas Theological Seminary.  I am the author of Hope in the Face of Conflict: Making Peace with Others the Way God Makes Peace with Us.
Over the course of twenty-five years, I have helped congregations and couples move from conflict to peace, from hurt to healing, and from distance to genuine connection. Of the more than 500 couples I've worked with, the majority were caught in the same painful cycle they'd been stuck in for years, convinced nothing would ever change. I'm happy to report that a great many of them found their way back to each other.
I should also note that this work isn’t only professional for me — my wife and I have been married for fifty years, so I know how great a marital relationship can be.
If your marriage is struggling, there is real hope.  Learn more  about how I can help you rebuild your marriage.

A Word About Christian Marriage Counseling

Christian marriage counseling integrates the truths of Scripture with proven principles of conflict resolution and relational healing.  Rather than treating faith as irrelevant — or avoiding it altogether — Christian counseling views your faith as a powerful resource for restoring your marriage.

My approach is grounded in the Judeo-Christian model of peacemaking: learning to make peace with others the way God makes peace with us.  This model applies wherever conflict exists — including between husbands and wives.  This is not merely theological theory.  It is a practical process that works.  In marriage, it helps couples:

  • Break destructive cycles of conflict, withdrawal, and resentment
  • Communicate with greater honesty, sensitivity, and compassion
  • Rebuild trust after a lack of transparency, dishonesty, or relational distance
  • Restore emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy
  • Develop a shared vision for the marriage God intended
The result is not just fewer arguments — it’s a stronger, more connected marriage than you may have thought possible.
Toward this end, I offer Christian couples in Reston and throughout Northern Virginia a faith-based, goal-oriented approach to marriage counseling — grounded in biblical principles and conflict resolution research.
Learn more  about how this approach can help strengthen communication, restore trust, and deepen connection in your marriage.

Living in Reston VA


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About Reston

Reston, a vibrant planned community in Fairfax County, Virginia, blends the convenience of urban living with the natural beauty of its many parks, lakes, and trails. Notwithstanding this fact, many Reston couples struggle to stay emotionally connected. If you are looking to grow closer to your spouse, consider Dr. Ken Newberger, Ph.D. He offers a step-by-step reconciliation process that helps couples resolve conflict and rebuild their bond. Learn more about his approach on his marriage counseling process page.

Community Overview

According to Niche, “Reston is a town in Virginia with a population of approximately 63,500. Reston is in Fairfax County and consistently ranks among the best places to live in Virginia. Living in Reston offers residents an urban-suburban mix feel, and a majority of residents own their homes. In Reston, there are many restaurants, coffee shops, and parks. Many families and young professionals live in Reston, and residents tend to have moderate political views. The public schools in Reston are rated above average.” According to the Reston Association, the community maintains over 1,350 acres of open space—comprising 800 acres of woodlands, four lakes, three ponds, four wetlands, 50 meadows, and 20 miles of streams—providing abundant opportunities for nature-based activities.

Arts and Culture

Of interest, Neighborhoodscout.com notes, “Reston is also a town of artists. Reston has more artists, designers and people working in media than 90% of the communities in America. This concentration of artists helps shape Reston's character.”

Community Character

According to LongandFoster.com, “Reston, Virginia, is a vibrant and unique community in Northern Virginia, just 20 miles from Washington, D.C. Founded in 1964 as one of America's first planned communities, Reston balances urban convenience with natural beauty. With walkable town centers, peaceful wooded neighborhoods, and easy Metro access to D.C. via two Silver Line stops, it's a place that feels both connected and restful. Reston's dedication to parks and open space means that residents can embrace a lifestyle that includes easy access to city perks, neighborhood charm, and miles of nature trails – all in one welcoming community.”

Resident Perspective

On a more personal note, one enthusiastic resident of Reston VA stated, “Driving through Reston, an overwhelming sense of home comes over you. My family has lived in Reston for three generations, since before Reston even existed, and growing up in such a special community is something I am extremely grateful for. In Reston, it is impossible to go anywhere without running into a friend, or making a new one. From brunch at Lake Anne plaza, to shopping at Town Center, and sunset boating on Lake Audubon, every day is a movie that you can't help but replay in your dreams. Arguably the best part of life in Reston, however, is the love its residents have for the town, and each other. Youth sports excite thousands of kids each year, and school dances bring town-wide parades that Restonians of all ages participate in. Hand made art displayed all over town is just one symbol of the love and pride all Restonians feel for their community. Words do not bring justice to how special the town of Reston Virginia is. Living in Reston is the best decision anyone can make.”

Marriage Support for Reston

Reston VA is a wonderful place to live, worship, and raise a family — but the challenges Christian couples face here are just as real as anywhere in the country. The good news is Dr. Newberger offers Christian couples in Reston an effective alternative to traditional marriage counseling.  If you are struggling in your marriage speak with him today.

Ready to take the first step?

Call 703-483-0031 to speak with Dr. Newberger without charge or obligation about your situation.  Or, if you prefer, learn more about his process →