Reston Christian Marriage Counseling Alternative
Stop Having the Same
Argument Over and Over
Break the Cycle Using The Judeo-Christian Model of Peacemaking
Introduction
Greetings. My name is Dr. Ken Newberger. I hold a Ph.D. in Conflict Analysis & Resolution from Nova Southeastern University and a Master of Theology from Dallas Theological Seminary. I am the author of Hope in the Face of Conflict: Making Peace with Others the Way God Makes Peace with Us. Over the course of twenty-five years, I have helped congregations and couples move from conflict to peace, from hurt to healing, and from distance to genuine connection. Of the more than 500 couples I've worked with, the majority were caught in the same painful cycle they'd been stuck in for years, convinced nothing would ever change. I'm happy to report that a great many of them found their way back to each other. I should also note that this work isn’t only professional for me — my wife and I have been married for fifty years, so I know how great a marital relationship can be. If your marriage is struggling, there is real hope. See how I can help you rebuild your marriage.A Word About Christian Marriage Counseling
Christian marriage counseling integrates the truths of Scripture with proven principles of conflict resolution and relational healing. Rather than treating faith as irrelevant — or avoiding it altogether — Christian counseling views your faith as a powerful resource for restoring your marriage.
My approach is grounded in the Judeo-Christian model of peacemaking: learning to make peace with others the way God makes peace with us. This model applies wherever conflict exists — including between husbands and wives. This is not merely theological theory. It is a practical process that works. In marriage, it helps couples:
- Break destructive cycles of conflict, withdrawal, and resentment
- Communicate with greater honesty, sensitivity, and compassion
- Rebuild trust after a lack of transparency, dishonesty, or relational distance
- Restore emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy
- Develop a shared vision for the marriage God intended
Living in Reston VA
Community Overview
Reston, a vibrant planned community in Fairfax County, Virginia, blends the convenience of urban living with the natural beauty of its many parks, lakes, and trails. It is home to roughly 63,500 residents and consistently ranks among the best places to live in Virginia. It is prized for its urban-suburban feel, strong rate of homeownership, and above-average public schools. Reston also carries a creative streak — it's home to a notably high concentration of artists, designers, and media professionals relative to other American communities. According to the Reston Association, the community maintains over 1,350 acres of open space—comprising 800 acres of woodlands, four lakes, three ponds, four wetlands, 50 meadows, and 20 miles of streams—providing abundant opportunities for nature-based activities.
Community Character
Founded in 1964 as one of America's first planned communities, Reston pairs walkable town centers and two Silver Line Metro stops with quiet, wooded neighborhoods and miles of trails — giving residents an unusual mix of city convenience and small-town calm, all about 20 miles from downtown D.C. It's the kind of place where couples move expecting an easier pace of life, and are often surprised at how much the daily grind of careers, kids, and commuting still finds its way in.
One resident said on Niche.com, "I've had a very positive experience living in Reston. One of the things I appreciate most is the balance between natural beauty and everyday convenience. The walking trails, lakes, and green spaces make it easy to stay active and enjoy the outdoors, while shopping centers, restaurants, and essential services are all close by in Reston Town Center. The community feels welcoming, diverse, and well-maintained, which adds to the overall sense of comfort and safety.... Overall, Reston offers a strong sense of community and a high quality of life."
Marriage Support for Reston
Reston offers a lot to the couples who call it home, but no community is immune to the conflicts that strain marriages. A strong faith and a good church don't change that. The good news is, I offer Christian couples in Reston an effective alternative to traditional talk therapy — one that takes Scripture seriously and pairs it with what the research on conflict resolution actually shows. The goal is to help you turn back toward each other. I also work with couples nearby in Herndon and Vienna. If your marriage is hurting, I hope you'll reach out.
Ready to take the first step?
Call 703-483-0031 to speak with me without charge or obligation about your situation. Or, if you prefer, learn more about my process →
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