Work Your Way Back
to Each Other
Improve Communication
Resolve Conflict
Rebuild Your Emotional Bond
"Dr. Ken, I really appreciate how intuitive you were
at understanding issues in my marriage."
CALL ME TODAY
Call me, Dr. Ken Newberger, Ph.D., Conflict Analysis & Resolution, for a
free 15-minute consultation to discuss your marital situation, 703-483-0031. During the call, we'll also determine if my structured, mediation-based alternative to traditional marriage counseling is a
good fit for you.
I'll answer your questions and give you an opportunity to gauge your comfort level with me. After we talk, if you choose to participate in the "Testing the Waters" session, follow the steps below.
The "Testing the Waters" Session
You and your spouse will meet with me from your home for two hours. During the first half, I'll ask questions to understand your situation. During the second half, you'll each share what's on your heart. To begin:
Email
me your contact information.
Reply.
I'll respond with a brief to-do list, which will include my
Goals survey
and the link to Prepare/Enrich
couples assessment tool. Your responses help me gain a better understanding of your relationship before we meet.
You'll also electronically sign the ground rules that apply to this process.
The rate is $200 per hour.
Click here to make payment prior to the session.
Complete these items by 4:00 pm today...
MEET AS SOON AS TOMORROW
After the "Testing the Waters" session, you'll have the clarity to decide whether to continue. If you do, we will dive deeper together.
"We continue to heal. You made me confront things and
answer hard questions that I avoided for years.
Your coming along side us was a Godsend."
GETTING TO THE CORE
Take the Conflict Analysis Tool (CAT)
Like an X-ray, the Conflict Analysis Tool reveals the inner workings of your relationship, identifying the root causes behind recurring issues. Your individual reports capture each of
your thoughts and feelings across key categories, allowing me to propose solutions that "hit the mark."
Schedule Your Individual Meetings
Each of you will have a private 1½ to 2 hour session with me, where you can speak openly without worry that your partner will challenge what you share. I will focus primarily on
the information collected from the Conflict Analysis Tool, zeroing in on the core issues that stand between you.
What I Will Do
Prior to our next joint session, I will complete a comprehensive review of all the information you've shared. It includes your initial phone call, goal surveys, Prepare/Enrich report, Testing the Waters session, individual session notes, and Conflict Analysis Tool responses. Altogether, this represents approximately 75 pages of information about your relationship. By looking at your relationship from multiple angles (a process called data triangulation), I uncover clear, accurate insights that will help you move forward as a couple.
There is a one-time investment of $390 per person. This fee covers the cost of the CAT
itself, as well as approximately five hours of in-depth analysis that I conduct on behalf of
both of you, described above. This represents roughly
ten times the level of attention and analysis that
traditional marriage counseling provides prior to a second joint session.
(Note: Joint and individual sessions are not included in this fee).
"We're happy to report that our marriage is stronger than
ever! Of course we put the work in to get the results,
but it was Dr. Newberger that diagnosed the
issues and proposed the solutions."
RECONCILE
By our second joint session, you won't just be talking about change — we'll begin reshaping how
you interact. After each session, you'll work on activities designed to strengthen your
connection. During our time together, we'll uncover insights about your relationship and
turn them into practical steps you and your spouse can use in everyday life. While our work
together helps realign your relationship, real change happens when you put what you've learned
into practice. In other words, the sooner you put me out of a job the better!
Premium Services
Sessions:
We typically meet 3 times a month for 1½ hours per session.
Most couples complete this structured mediation process in just 3 to 9 joint sessions.
Note: At times, I may "shuttle" between you, meeting or talking with each of you
individually, to further support the relationship.
Limited Case-Load:
I intentionally maintain a small client roster
to ensure each couple receives my full attention and expertise.
Rate:
$200 per hour (with ¼ hr. billing).
The total investment usually ranges from $2,400 to $5,200 depending on the complexity of your case.
This rate includes, without charge,
the preparation work I do prior to your sessions.
While many counselors spend just a few minutes preparing for sessions, I dedicate
an hour or more to reviewing your history and crafting a personalized agenda
tailored to you and your unique situation.
No Cancellation Charge.
Things happen. If you need to cancel an appointment you
won't be penalized.
Support Between Sessions:
As part of my commitment to your progress, each couple receives up to 30 minutes of phone or email support between sessions (15 minutes per spouse) without charge.
Work-Friendly Hours:
I work both day and evening hours to accommodate
your work schedule.
Private Pay:
My work as an interpersonal conflict resolution specialist is not covered by medical insurance.
A Word About Sessions from Home
Research
confirms what I have observed in my work with couples: there is no meaningful difference between in-office and online sessions. For those overburdened with responsibilities online counseling is not merely convenient — it is essential. It makes every minute count by eliminating commute and office wait time, while preserving the effectiveness of each session.
● Here's one client's experience:
"We were pleasantly surprised and happy to see that he [Dr. Newberger] offered virtual counseling sessions... Although our sessions were virtual and paperwork handled via email, the entire process ran smoothly. We never felt like we were missing out on anything. We truly enjoyed the virtual sessions because they allowed us to be more relaxed in our own environment and we didn't have to take the time to travel to an office. We also felt like the virtual sessions were less intimidating than in-person sessions. Overall, the experience was very rewarding."
● If you're unsure
whether to meet in-office or from the convenience of your home, the "Testing the Waters"
session can help you decide. Ultimately, your success as a couple depends on your willingness to make changes and grow together. My guidance remains the same, no matter how we meet.
Compare This Unique Process
with Traditional Marriage Counseling
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