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Take the Pathway that Leads to a
Happier, Less Conflicted, and More
Loving Marriage Relationship
Phase One: Information Gathering
A. Testing the Waters (Week 1)
B. Learning About the Nature of Your Relationship (Week 1)
- Call me, Dr. Ken Newberger, for a FREE consultation to discuss your situation. My direct line is 239-689-4266. Or schedule a time to talk by clicking the blue "Contact" button on the bottom of this page.
- Initial Joint Session. We will schedule an introductory meeting. I will ask each of you some questions to learn more about you and your situation and confirm that my area of expertise in resolving conflict matches your needs. This session will also give both of you an opportunity to assess your comfort level with me.
- Prior to the meeting I will email you a copy of the ground rules to read that is to be signed at the beginning of the meeting. Click here to type-in your contact information in the pop-up box.
- Cost: $95 for the initial session lasting up to one hour
- Prepare/Enrich Couple's Assessment Report. (a) This unsurpassed diagnostic instrument captures in-depth information about the major facets of your relationship. Like an x-ray into your relationship, the results promptly reveal what would otherwise take weeks if not months to accurately learn, saving you time and money. This tool has been administered to over 3 million couples (6 million people). I have been a certified facilitator since 1988. The assessment will take you about 35-45 minutes to complete online. Click here after you receive your code. The cost per couple is $35, which you pay directly to Life Innovations after you are logged in. (b) I will analyze the results of your 24-page computer generated report.
- Confidential Questionnaires. (a) You will complete a 3-page questionnaire. It is specially crafted for couples experiencing problems in their relationship. You will each provide information about your respective backgrounds and perspective on the relationship. You will be answering questions you likely have never been asked before, the answers to which provide real insight into what is really going on between the two of you. The questionnaire may take you an hour or two to complete. (b) After you send your written answers back to me, I will analyze them.
- Conflict Analysis Tool. (a) This tool assesses your relationship in four ways. (1) It looks at how secure (strong) or insecure (weak) your relational bond is. If it is insecure, what does the pattern of disconnect look like? Understanding the pattern of the disconnect helps identify where to begin the repair; (2) It reviews your past attachments with significant others in your life, helping to identify long-standing patterns; (3) It brings to light the way each of you approach the relationship with respect to conflict; (4) It looks at the impact your fighting has on each of you, particularly emotionally. After payment is made using the button below, you will automatically be transferred to the appropriate web page. You can begin answering the questions at that time, or write down the web address and return to it later. (b) I will analyze each of your results. This assessment will take you about 20-30 minutes to complete.
$220 per couple for items 3b, 4b, 5b above, and 7 below.|
This work (approx. 4-5 hours) is done behind the scenes.
C. Meeting Alone with Each of You (Week 2)
- Individual Meetings. You will each schedule a private session with me. The purpose of this meeting is to understand your perspective and experience of the relationship without challenge from your partner. Your responses to the questionnaire, as well as information gleaned from the two assessment tools, will be used as the basis for this very important one-on-one session. This session is typically lasts at least 90 minutes, and sometimes up to 2 hours.
Rate: $95 per hour
Phase Two: Change and Transformation
Building A Stronger, More Loving Relationship (Starting Week 3)
- Prior to the Second Joint Session. In advance of your second joint meeting, I spend a significant amount of time compiling all the data I have gathered from multiple sources: results from the Prepare/Enrich assessment, each of your responses to the conflict analysis tool, your individual questionnaires, and notes from each of your individual sessions (paragraphs 3 through 6 above). As a result, you are able to bypass weeks of information gathering sessions that, quite frankly, would not yield nearly as much insight about you and how the two of you interact as provided by these tools. The process of repairing and rebuilding your relationship begins in the second joint session. Note: In preparation for this session, I develop a goal-oriented agenda specific to the two of you. Then, in preparation for each subsequent session, I review your file and create a new agenda according to the progress made thus far.
- Throughout the Proceedings each of you will be given the opportunity to tell your story. Differences in perspectives will be explored. To the greatest extent possible, barriers to communication will be removed and replaced by open and honest conversation. Various factors contributing to your conflict will be identified including the emotional component. Solutions that address core issues and enhance reconciliation will be pursued. Relationship building exercises will be assigned. The overarching goal throughout this process is to transform your stressed and conflicted marriage into a more secure, peaceful, and loving one.
- $95 per hour. Joint sessions are typically 1½ to 2 hours in length. They become shorter and less frequent as the relationship improves.
- The same rate applies for phone appointments, review of documents, writing/editing projects, and all other services.
- Brief phone calls of 5 minutes or less: No charge.
Payment is due at the time of service. Using the button below is also an option.
Offering a Cutting-Edge Alternative to Conventional Marriage Counseling for: Naples, Fort (Ft) Myers, Bonita Springs, Cape Coral, Estero and surrounding SWFL communities in Lee and Collier Counties.